Just remember, once you’re over the hill you begin to pick up speed
Arthur Schopenhauer
We talk about someone we consider to be too old as being āover the hillā. But who decides how old is too old? Do we too easily dismiss the elderly among us as being past it? Do we fail to recognise that their journeys up that hill may mean that they have a lot to teach us about the paths that we too must follow?
For Donnaās Lens Artists Challenge theme this week I thought Iād share some stories of people Iāve encountered on my travels who might be considered by many to be over the hill. All of them, despite their age, are or were making a significant contribution to others. Using their own experience to help people. Telling their often difficult stories so that we may learn from or about the past. Or simply making the most of their talents and not settling for mediocrity.
Those of us like me who are, if not over the hill, very close to its peak, can only be inspired by their examples! And consider this:
I’d rather be over the hill than under it
George Burns
I have included below some links to fuller accounts of these encounters elsewhere in my blog, in case anyone is interested to read more.
Mr. Duong Van Ngo
Saigonās grand Central Post Office dates from the late 19th century and is still in use today. Inside you can still see the original telephone booths, and further in, beyond the perhaps inevitable souvenir stalls, are the original, wooden writing desks. Near here we met Mr. Duong Van Ngo. In 2020, at the age of ninety, he was still cycling to work here each morning to offer a letter writing service in Vietnamese, French and English. From the brief conversation we had, his English is excellent.
Culture Trip, presumably writing three years before our visit, describes him thus:
‘At the end of a wooden table inside the post office sits Mr. Duong Van Ngo, a man who has been recognized by the Vietnam Guinness Book of Records for 27 years spent writing letters for those who cannot write for themselves. The 87-year-old writer is reportedly fluent in both English and French and continues to write letters every day despite his advanced age. He starts his working day at 8 a.m and ends at 3 p.m, writing several letters per day while charging 50 cents per page. Mr. Duong has become an icon at the post office over the past several years.’
Chum Mey
When the Khmer Rouge prison in Phnom Penh, Tuol Sleng (now a museum), was liberated by the invading Vietnamese army in 1979, the guards killed all but a handful of prisoners. The aim was to try to prevent them telling of the horrors perpetrated there.
Chum Mey is one of the very few among the thousands who were imprisoned here to have survived the experience. Today, after many years in which he felt unable to revisit the prison, he and another survivor now come regularly. They tell their stories to visitors either in person or through the books that each has been assisted to write. You can read his full story in my blog post about the museum.
A North Korean national hero
At a very different war museum, the Victorious Fatherland Liberation War Museum in Pyongyang, we met a man with a very different story to tell. Proudly wearing his naval uniform he sat on a bench in the museum grounds.
He was then (2019) eighty years old. He was employed by the museum as a guide, although his main duty was simply posing with tourists.
To the visiting North Koreans this man is a national hero. To the relatively few tourists from further afield he is simply an historical curiosity. On 23 January 1968 he led six others, the crew of a small boat, as they boarded and captured the USS Pueblo.
Today the Pueblo is moored on the Potong Canal, in the grounds of the Victorious Fatherland Liberation War Museum in Pyongyang. It was captured by the North Koreans because, they said, its crew was spying in their waters. You can read the full story of its capture in this post. Itās a story that demonstrates perfectly how differently two sides can perceive, or at least describe, the same historical occurrence.
Leo
In my very first post on this blog I described our meeting with a great character, Leo, in New Mexico. He was the owner of the treasure-trove ChimayĆ³ Trading Post. The shop has been in this location since the 1930s. And it seemed to me that Leo must have moved here then too, and possibly been sitting inside behind the counter where we met him ever since. His age and that of many of the objects for sale here seemed about the same. And he appeared to be as much of a fixture as they.
To step inside the trading post is to feel yourself transported back around a hundred years. To a time when the pace of life was slower and nothing was ever thrown away, because it might just come in handy one day. And Leo epitomised that ethos. We were also invited to visit his house next door, which was almost as stuffed with curiosities as the trading post itself.
Sadly I learned from an interesting article I found online some years ago (now behind a firewall) that Leo died in 2017. His nephew Patrick now runs the store, but it seems little changed. The spirit of Leo lives on in the trading post he created.
Leon āWhiteyā Thompson
On our first road trip in the US, in California, we spent a few days (too few!) exploring San Francisco. While there we visited Alcatraz. There we met yet another colourful character, Leon āWhiteyā Thompson. He was a reformed ex-inmate who spent his later years visiting schools across the country to inspire young people not to follow in his footsteps. We bought a signed copy of his book as a gift for Chrisās father John. And Chris posed for a photo with the ex-bank robber.
Unfortunately however that photo doesnāt exist. We discovered a couple of days later that the small snapshot camera used to take it had malfunctioned when dropped earlier in the trip. The film had become detached from the spools and all the shots were superimposed on a single frame, thus useless. So my photo above is instead a poor scan of a 35mm slide showing the inside of a typical cell. Meanwhile have a look at the photo in this obituary notice to see what Leon looked like around the time we met him, and to read his story in full.
A village chief
We were on a tour of the area of Gambia associated with the book Roots by Alex Haley. In it he tells how he traced his family back to a certain Kunta Kinte who originated from Juffureh. From there he had been captured and sold into slavery in the plantations of the American South. There have been some challenges to the authenticity of this account. Haley himself admitted that he took some details of Kunta Kinteās story from another book. And papers found after his death cast doubt on his claim that he was descended from him. But there is no denying that these villages, like most others in the region, suffered terribly from the impacts of the slave trade. And that those impacts were felt by both those who were taken and those left behind.
For me the most memorable encounter here was not with the descendants of Kunta Kinteās family, who pose for tourists in Juffureh, but with the village chief. This just happened to be, at the time of our visit, a woman. It is still an unusual and remarkable occurrence to find a woman in a position of power in this part of the world.
I have no idea how old she was. She looked of an age that many would consider to be āover the hillā. But she was clearly respected by her people to have been elevated to a role that she seemed to relish. She sat in the village banaba to receive visitors and welcomed us through a translator. She spoke a little about her appreciation of the efforts we had made to leave our hotels for the day and travel to see something of village life.
Over the hill?
So, are/were these people ‘over the hill’? Is anyone? After all, life isnāt one continuous climb until a certain age, then a slow decline. Itās full of constant ups and downs. So the idea that we can ever be over the hill makes little sense. Maybe it’s time we dropped the phrase and recognised that we’re all still climbing our hills and hoping to enjoy the views!
40 Comments
Leya
A truly great post, Sarah – they always are, but this one is filled with special stories and beautiful portraits of special people. I saw Tina referred to Mornings with Morrie, a novel I remember touched me too. Enjoyed every piece of this post.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks so much Ann Christine š I’ll have to look into that book as two of you have now recommended it.
wetanddustyroads
I think I’ve mentioned this before…but we can learn so much from the elderly. “Over the hill” – that’s a relative term, because some days I feel over the hill and other days like a girl in her 20’s š (though the latter is not that often). Great photos and examples of “over the hill” people (I like your conclusion … it might be that all these people probably already conquered the hills in their lives and now just enjoying what’s left of it). I would not mind be a Mr. Duong Van Ngo – he looks happy and content!
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you – I think a lot of us feel just like that! In my head I’m barely 30 most days, but my back and legs tell a different story! But I’m not sure I intended to say that these people were over their hills – rather, that none of us ever really stops climbing and discovering new vistas.
Amy
Their faces through your images show their courages and their purpose of living; that is not over the hill.
Love your take on, Sarah.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks so much Amy, I’m happy you liked my approach to the challenge this week š
leightontravels
A thought-provoking piece Sarah with wonderful portraits of people who have lived incredible lives. I also met Chum Mey during my first visit to Tuol Sleng, but sadly missed out on Duong Van Ngo, who wasn’t at his desk when I passed through Grand Central Post Office. Love the Village chief, what a special woman, special story, photographs, all of it. I am climbing the hill… just a touch slower than I was in my 30s, but climbing nevertheless.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks Leighton, glad you liked this piece. I think you’re rather lower down that hill than many of us! A shame you missed meeting Duong Van Ngo, he was quite a character š
Anabel @ The Glasgow Gallivanter
Inspiring stories and images.
To me, over the hill is always about 10 years older than I am š.
Sarah Wilkie
Ah yes, I think I’m with you on that! Thanks for the kind words š
Aletta - nowathome
Stunning post Sarah! Your portraits are so beautiful!
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you Aletta, I’m so glad you like them
Aletta - nowathome
I really do! š
Oh, the Places We See
Your faces and memories are remarkable. Thanks for sharing “over the hill” folks, and one we met also: Chum Mey. What a story! What a survivor! And an inspiration to thousands. Your pictures are fabulous, as always. Thanks for sharing.
Sarah Wilkie
Ah, you met him too! I was amazed that he felt able to come back to the scene of such an awful period in his life.
grandmisadventures
Very perfectly said. I love these pictures of so many who have lived and experienced so much in life.
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you, I’m happy you liked this š
thehungrytravellers.blog
Absorbing subject matter – photos of older people often capture such character. Good reading to give sone substance and context to the images.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks, yes, there’s lots of character in these faces! And glad you liked the text too š
I. J. Khanewala
Lovely portraits. One of the few posts which have taken the metaphorical meaning of the topic
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you š I’m surprised more people didn’t go for this angle on the topic.
restlessjo
Fantastic post, Sarah, and host of characters. Have a happy week, collecting more!
Sarah Wilkie
I’ll see what/who I can find!
Leela Gopinath
Great images as usual. The post touches an extremely sensitive topic…especially for the aged!
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks Leela š Yes, sensitive for many of us I guess.
margaret21
Such characterful portraits!
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you Margaret. We’ve certainly met our fair share of characters on our travels!
margaret21
The best memories, often.
Mike and Kellye Hefner
Beautiful pictures and stories, Sarah!
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you, I’m so glad you liked them š
Wind Kisses
Wow! Fascinating is an understatement. I love the direction you grabbed with this challenge. The history you shared was engaging, and the admiration for the people behind that history encourages me to read more. I know you love photographing people and this is such a next level.
Your post should be seen magazines. I think there is so much for us to learn of other cultures, which is why I love travel. But the bottom line is what we learn from this history is the rewards of people who are humble and who believe we can learn from their lives. We CAN be better. I can go on and on. I have always loved your knowledgable posts. I love this the most. And the quotes attached are spot on.
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you Donna, that’s such lovely and rewarding feedback š I loved putting this post together. I’m glad you liked it!
Wind Kisses
I did.
Rose
Sarah, I agree with Wind Kisses, āYour post should be seen magazinesāā¦ Iāve suggested before that your images and stories should be in books for classrooms, libraries, and travel itineraries. You offer a wide perspective that is so real and forthright showcasing what you observe, it deserves to be seen by far more people.
And yes, letās drop the āover the hillā phrase. I plan to keep going, over the hill, and as far as my body will go. Youāve given lovely examples of people who aged well, and did astounding things. We see it on the news often here, another person reaches 100, and theyāre still moving about as if they are much younger: thinking, doing, helpingā¦ I hope to have a similar health, energy, and altruistic spirit at 100 or longer.
Wind Kisses
Alleluia! love your spirit. Rose. Donna
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you so much Rose š And of course I agree with all you and Donna say about the idea of being over the hill.
Tina Schell
A really marvelous post Sarah – one of my favorites from you ever. Your stories are very interesting and tell a truth we should all keep in mind. Coincidentally I saw on CBS Sunday Morning today an interview with Mitch Albom, the author of Mornings with Morrie. His message was similar to yours about how Morrie changed his life and about the amazing work he is doing with so many charitable organizations around the world as a result. I am going to go back a re-read the story after having seen the segment. Also, I had the exact reaction you had in North Korea when I visited the “Museum of American Atrocities” in North Vietnam. So many of us never see things with the other side’s perspective. It’s an amazingly eye-opening experience. Anyway, Great post, I truly enjoyed it.
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you so much Tina š I’m really glad you liked this! I’ve not heard of Mornings with Morrie but yes, that sounds like a similar message indeed. And I’m pleased your experiences in Vietnam echoed mine in North Korea. I felt the same too when we visited some of the Vietnamese war ‘sights’.
Easymalc
Well said Sarah -and some great images š
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you Malcolm š