Travel is not just about the places we travel to; it is about the people we meet along the way. And when such meetings develop into friendships that are sustained long after the journey has been completed, that is precious indeed.
From June 2005 to early 2017 I was an active member of a travel website, Virtual Tourist. Over the years this developed into a real community β not just online but also βin real lifeβ. One element of this was the regular organisation of meetings between members, large and small. The latter might consist of just two members who found themselves travelling to the same destination at the same time; or maybe arranging to meet up with a local friend while on a city break.
The largest meetings, on the other hand, could involve over 100 members. Many of these were regular fixtures in the calendar of many members. Among them, the annual βEuromeetβ was one of the biggest and longest established. It was first held in 2005 in Valeggio, near Verona. I first attended in 2008 when it took place in Karlsruhe, Germany, and went to almost all of them from that year on, missing only 2011.
Virtual Tourist meetings 2008-2013
These meetings were the initiative of members, not Virtual Tourist management, although the latter encouraged and supported them, attending when they could. Each year one or several members volunteered to organise and host the meeting, devoting their own time and energy to planning a great weekend of activities for those that came. And come we did β not just from Europe but from as far afield as Canada, the US, Australia β¦
Virtual Tourist meetings 2014-2016
The end of an era?
When, sadly, the closure of the Virtual Tourist website was announced in January 2017, planning for that yearβs meeting in Kempten, Germany, was well underway. And many of us had already made travel arrangements and booked hotels. What would happen? Could the meeting go ahead without the website and without any management support? You bet it could!
And what is more, the initiative and support of members willing to organise and host has ensured that the meetings have continued, with a 2018 meeting in Reykjavik and a 2019 one in Plovdiv, Bulgaria.
Virtual Tourist meetings 2017-2019
Virtual Tourists in 2020
As for 2020, well we all know what has happened to travel this year β it is almost non-existent. This should have been my year to play host; all plans were in place by January for a meeting in Newcastle-upon-Tyne. I had booked restaurants for group dinners and arranged for a city tour and a coach trip in Northumberland. VT members had booked flights and made hotel reservations. I was expecting around 60 people to attend. But of course none of that happened. Now we wait to see if our revised plan of a May 2021 meeting can come to fruition or if we will have to postpone again *. One thing though is for sure β sooner or later Virtual Tourist members will gather together again to enjoy more precious moments.
Meanwhile, like so many friends, we have turned to Zoom to keep in touch, with weekly gatherings involving members from the US, UK, Canada, Australia, Netherlands, Belgium, Ukraine, Denmark, Norway, Japan plus from time to time Iceland, Spain β even Syria! Our travels have become truly virtual.
There is something really special, and enduring, about this community of like-minded travellers. Of course as is natural we all have our particular friends within the group, drawn to each other by similarities in interests, age, sense of humour etc. But it rarely feels cliquey, and new people are welcomed and absorbed into the group with ease.
I am forever thankful for the day I decided to sign up to the website, and for the day I decided to take the plunge and attend my first big meeting. Hereβs to many more to come, once travel is possible once more!
I am posting these photos in response to this weekβs Lens Artists Challenge to share precious moments from our travels. The friendships I have made with this wonderful community of travellers, all over the world, are indeed precious.
* Postscript 2023: the planned meeting in Newcastle finally went ahead in May 2022, two years late and after several further postponements. Members came from Canada, the US, Israel, Iceland, Germany, Norway, Sweden, Finland, Netherlands and of course the UK. And now the story continues, with this year’s meeting to be held in Norway and voting underway to decide our 2024 destination!
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equinoxio21
Very nice. The perfect example of an initiative that shall live on.
Thanks for the post.
(Bl..dy WP buttons. I clicked on the wrong one to post the comment… Unfollowed you. Then refollowed…)
Cheers
Sarah Wilkie
Ah, that explains why I just got a notification that you’d started following me π It’s not an exaggeration to say that Virtual Tourist changed my life to some extent at least! I’ve been to places I probably wouldn’t have visited and have made friends with people I’d never have met.
equinoxio21
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It is quite extraordinary that you went though that “door”. Nice.
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Fergy.
Fergy here again, still cannot access your site vis WordPress.
What a great piece and so many memories, hopefully more to come as and when.
Sarah Wilkie
Hi Fergy π I really have no idea why you can’t get WP access to work – it’s such a pain for you! No one else seems to have these problems so it’s a bit of a mystery why you should have them.
Yes, hopefully one day we can get back to meeting up again. DAO has told me that if I can’t do September (but I do hope I can!) he’s OK to shift Malta back again. And surely by next May things will be manageable if not ‘normal’?!!
Anne Sandler
Thanks for visiting and following my blog. It’s a wonderful idea to have a travel group!
Sarah Wilkie
It’s not an exaggeration to say that Virtual Tourist changed my life Anne π We all miss having the website but we’re managing to stay connected and to organise these meetings. I’m currently trying to rearrange (again!) plans for the postponed 2020 one with the hope that we might be able to go ahead in September this year.
And I’m sure it’s going to be a pleasure following your blog π
Anne Sandler
I have a photo group of seniors. We go out together locally and for some one day trips (until COVID). A lot of us don’t travel too much any more. Keep going until you can’t!
Sarah Wilkie
Oh I will! But that’s one reason this enforced break in travelling is so frustrating – it feels like wasted year(s) π
Forestwood
This sounds like a wonderful experience and makes me wish I had stayed with Vt and gone to a meet. All the places I would love to have visited again.
A living community. Those friendships are lasting.
Sarah Wilkie
It’s been amazing being part of this community Amanda, and it continues to grow and thrive π We use Facebook these days to stay in touch (not the same as VT but it works pretty well). If you’re on there you’d be very welcome to reconnect with the community. Drop me a line via my ‘contact me’ form π
Forestwood
I will have to see if I remember my logon….
Larry Sampson
I love this. I never thought I would have so many friends all over the globe. Not just online but also in person.
Sarah Wilkie
I know, I feel the same Larry. When I signed up to the website to share a few photos I never dreamed it would lead to all that it has. Here’s hoping we can meet up again in 2021!
Leya
Love the idea, the travel, the photos!
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks Leya – it’s such a wonderful community to be part of!
Leya
It is!
JohnRH
Precious through persistent moments. Well done. (P.S. Brutalist architecture is so… brutal! (Buzludzha.) ) π π
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks John – I do have rather a thing (positive) about Brutalist architecture π
JohnRH
A prodigious use of concrete! π
Lesley Russell
Great memories for everyone, and great to see the spirit of VT kept alive – and to be part of it. Yet to make a Euromeet but will anyone who attended ever forget the Alice Springs meet of 2010 and efforts of the valiant crew of the VT SEABISCUIT in the Henley-on-Todd regatta?
Sarah Wilkie
Yes, I certainly heard a lot about that Alice Springs meet Lesley – it sounded like a lot of fun!
margaret21
What a great idea. Travelling brings many opportunities to meet interesting people. What a wonderful way to keep in touch.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks Margaret – indeed our Euromeets and other meetings have kept us together as a group. We can (and do) stay in touch online but nothing beats actually getting together in person π
TheRamblingWombat
Some wonderful memories here Sarah. Though I have not (yet) attended a Euromeet I have attended a Downunder Meet (Australia) which included the first ever VT member Cruise and a couple of smaller get-togethers in London which I enjoyed immensely. Here’s to the success of future meets, large and small.
Sarah Wilkie
Hopefully you will make a Euromeet one day Albert, but meanwhile as you know I am always up for organising smaller ones whenever you make it over here π
Tina Schell
What a wonderful idea and you’ve met so many like-minded friends along the way! So glad you’ve been able to continue. Here’s to 2021 travel once more!
Sarah Wilkie
Indeed Tina, let’s hope that we can all travel again next year!
starship VT
Sarah, your wonderful photos highlight just how strong the ties of friendship between VirtualTourist (VT) members remain, and how many new friendships have been forged over the years, especially between those attending VT Euromeets. Though I joined VT in 2002, I never really imagined that it would lead to becoming friends with other members around the world. VT was the impetus, but as you say, it certainly is the people, like yourself, who keep the spirit alive today. Great article!
Sarah Wilkie
Thank you Sylvia π Yes, the ties of friendship have endured beyond the website, as we all prove each time we meet!
Teresa
Wonderful memories indeed!
Anonymous
Ah the memories! I went to the Marbella one, I think back in 2006. It was such fun! I often organised mini Perth meets for anyone who came through as well. Never had a bad meet!!
Sarah Wilkie
Yes, I think Marbella must have been 2006. I know Santorini was 2007, the year before I started going. I’m wondering who you are, as your comment is showing as ‘anonymous’?
Anna
Hang on thatβs me, Anna! Why did it show anonymous? I thought it would have left my wordpress info?
Sarah Wilkie
Odd π€ Maybe you’d been logged out and not noticed? Anyway, I’m glad to have the mystery cleared up! Were the other anonymous comments I’ve received recently also from you?
Anna
Yes I have written a few comments recently and didnβt realise I wasnβt coming up. Iβve figured out that when I am on your actual site I am not logged in as WordPress, so I have to let you know itβs me. But when I am commenting via the WordPress reader (as I am now), you can see my avatar and see itβs me. Weird.
RegΓna HrΓΆnn RagnarsdΓ³ttir
Such lovely memories, Sarah, hopefully we will be able to meet up at Euromeet soon π
Sarah Wilkie
I do hope so Regina!
Amy
Your virtual tourist community is very special. How wonderful to meet with the people with the same interests from different parts of the world. Thank you, Sarah for sharing your fun experience, great photos, and precious moments with the virtual tourist group.
Sarah Wilkie
It was a real pleasure revisiting and sorting these old photos Amy, although it was a bittersweet reminder that we’ve been unable to meet up this year
katieshevlin62gmailcom
You really suit your hair dark Sarah! π I love meeting local people when I travel. π₯°
Sarah Wilkie
The dark is my natural colour Katie, but it became impractical to keep dying it that colour once I got more grey π
Claus Andersen
Great photos from some of our many meetings. Looking forward to the next time we meet again.
Sarah Wilkie
Me too! I really miss our VT meetings, large and small π
Easymalc
Nice one Sarah.
Sarah Wilkie
Thanks Malcolm π
Nemorino
Yes, I always enjoy the VT meetings, large or small.
Sarah Wilkie
Yes, small ones are great too Don π I was hoping I could come to the Christmas Markets meet again this year, but that’s yet another thing that’s fallen by the wayside π
Nemorino
Maybe next year…